Not the ONE

Been onto something… Love laden writing let’s say. Courtesy of Sanaipei Tande and Dan Aceda-Not the one song. So true! How do you know when the one you’ve loved for so long is not the one? At what point? After you have shared all those moments you do not picture yourself sharing with anyone else, or after you have been together long enough for you not to imagine yourself with any other person? Is it the fear of being alone that makes you stay, the fear of being on ‘your own’, or the heart break pain that makes you linger on just abit longer?

After all the rain comes sunshine…after all the tears and pain, that you will eventually surface from, there is the smile and joy that will come after...Yes it may take time. And yes it will be painful. But after all that there is rebirth. You will see that there is a reason why. And maybe sometimes it is not worth it. Let go, what you waiting for? If the good times have been replaced by inner torture and turmoil...Then no need J it’s your life, it’s all about you. When it gets to that point, hard as it may be, let it be. Maybe that one who is not the one is one of the frogs you meet on your way to find the prince. Well not prince. But the one! There is no prince as I said in my one of my posts. All those are utopian kinda stuff. What we see on fairy tale, Bollywood and Hollywood movies. Does not happen in real life J

So when the times comes for you to pack your shit and leave, do so. With your head up high, like the woman of substance you are. With optimism!! Cry, scream, and get it all out. But know in the end, the sun will shine so bright. The rain will be long gone. And even when it comes back, it will be sunshine filled. Not the never ending storms. Remember there is a reason why the people in your past don’t make it to your future!!! And in reality, no matter how hard you try to fix a broken relationship; compare it to a broken mirror, you may try to fix it, eventually you might succeed, but you can still see the cracks in the reflection.Well, what you waiting for?!!